@Milcah
Hello, I would love to prevent someone's relationship from not being destroyed today by the Internet. I am not a psychologist but from experience I have actually turned out to be one of late because of experience. Want to know why writers say you should not seek the internet for advise? it's because the internet is like a collection of books dumped on the floor; you either find the best or find the worst and in your search you are most likely to find the worst, because every body has his or her own opinion.
Just because someone's ex ghosted because of cheating doesn't mean your boyfriend is also ghosting because he is cheating. Please don't go and pour a whole bottle of acid on the face of someone's son just because what you read somewhere is what you are thinking is correct. Well it may true but is it worth it? Think about it, is it really true?
A possible alternative
Men and women undergo through a lot; someone may not want to speak to you because she or he is in another world thinking about her recent job loss or even problems at home; as humans our minds are prone to different sorts of dilemma and can easily be diverted into another form of world
What to rule out?
I am not going to tell you what you rule out when you are worried about your relationship but I just want you to be extra careful while following advise from various bloggers; after all it's mostly all about money; have you thought that he could be delaying to marry you, just because he wants to wait a few months to meet his plans to grant you a decent life; by the way life is not only about marriage
What do you have to save?
Save your relationship from unnecessary research and avoid living in assumptions. Wait, if he or she loves you, he will come around
